It’s so good to see another validation of how truly unacceptable and unbalanced this all is and why. My ex (now on marriage #3) is very close being just like the man in this. Throughout the years he has tried to pin his many shortcomings (that go beyond what this guy‘s was) on any and every diagnosis out there with the expectation that a “cocktail” of pills WILL make it all better.
From a very logical perspective, I finally started facing up to the reality that he has been misdiagnosed. Maybe the reason why no diagnosis OR “treatments” with medications will work to help him be better of himself and to those around him is because his diagnosis should always have been this: he is a sh!tty person.
I don’t know that any number of medications and/or treatments will cure someone being a sh!tty person. This is especially if and when they insist that they are just “misunderstood” and a “…humble, humble guy.”
By the way, the latter is how he will describe himself to be and if anyone tries to counter that OR discuss it with him, he will claim that people are being negative and unsupportive of him.