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Let me count the ways

LivingOn TheOutlines
5 min readJun 11, 2021

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Photo by Tom van Merrienboer on Unsplash

“I told my dad about you already. I also told my sister about you. And I told my friend I play tennis with, too.”

We were supposed to play tennis together last Sunday. The weather was sweltering though and he told me he didn’t want the first time we met to be when he was a sweaty mess. We ended up going bowling instead.

The really strange thing about all of this is that I previously saw him on Hinge before and just from his profile and pictures I said to myself, “ WHO is that?” He absolutely caught my attention and definitely my eye and I (actually) thought he was completely out of my “league.” There was just something about him that seemed so cool and out of reach to me and I ended up taking myself off line without ever making any kind of connection with him.

Then… I put myself back on the app. And there he was again.

And, this time, he *hearted* a photo of mine that opened things up for us to start messaging. And it was immediately apparent that he was just as fun, funny and the sort of easy going I picked up on from his profile and pictures.

There was a lot of messaging and I was able to learn plenty about him as much as figure out that we had a good deal of things in common. Then, he kind of fell out of touch because…

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