This right here is one reason why I effectively ended an almost 3-year relationship with someone instead of marrying them while I was in my 20s. He was totally ok with his mom doing everything for him including his laundry. He was also ok with lying to people about his career and college achievements and he told people he was a grad student when he never even finished an undergraduate degree. I had just finished my undergraduate degree AND paid for it myself by working full time and part time and going to school full time. When I broke things off with him he went crazy and I almost had to get a restraining order against him. He tried showing up to my place with an engagement ring and I (of course) said no to that too. He finally ended up marrying someone he dated for over a decade and I don’t know if they are happy but I hope he at least has grown up so she isn’t stuck being his mom.