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The healing power of Heartbreak
This morning when I woke up, I had no idea that I would text the person who has been my boyfriend and tell him to not bother calling or texting me anymore.
I am both heartbroken and HEALING for doing things just as I have done and not only that? I’m really proud of myself for taking a stand and walking away.
If you’ve kept up with my previous writings, you’ll know how incredibly important this last relationship was to me.
It’s not even because it helped me to be more fully myself.
It was a special and wonderful relationship because of the other person — who he was, how he was and on and on and on. Someone left a comment on the last thing I shared and insisted that the man I adored so much was a covert narcissist.
While I can see and understand how and why they would draw such a conclusion about the situation as much as the person who was my boyfriend? It really is so much more complicated than that and especially when it comes to him.
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Out of respect for him (and his amazing family), I have not and I also will not share the incredible details of why it’s both inappropriate and uncalled for to label him as a narcissist.
